Crucible Membership

The Crucible is a members-only organization. Almost all events are members only. Membership allows you to attend events at the club as well as bring one guest with you.
To become a member, sign up online and check in with the membership table when you next come in to pay for your membership and get your membership card.

More information and to become a member visit our membership page.

Dungeon 101

Are you new to BDSM, public play, or The Crucible?
Dungeon 101 is The Crucible’s monthly outreach night, designed to help you feel at ease as you explore public play. Dungeon 101 is open to anyone 18 or older who is interested in learning more about BDSM and The Crucible.
All attendees must show a government-issued photo ID.
This is an 18+ event and no alcohol is sold or permitted.
To foster a learning environment, sex is not allowed for the duration of the event.
No advance tickets are necessary or available, admission is at the door ($25 for Crucible members, $35 for non-members, $10 with Gateway card).
For more information, visit the Dungeon 101 page or email us!

Covid-19 Policy

Beginning January 2, 2024, The Crucible will no longer require proof of covid-19 vaccination.
We encourage individuals to make sure they are up-to-date with their boosters per CDC guidelines. As always, if you have symptoms of covid-19 or other airborne illnesses, please stay home. Individuals who wish to wear masks in the club are of course welcome to do so. If you have any questions about this policy, please reach out to info@the-crucible.com.

Upcoming Events

  • CLOSED
    October 23, 2024
  • Crucible Rendevous (21+)
    October 24, 2024  8:00 pm - October 25, 2024  12:00 am

    You are cordially invtied to Crucible Rendezvous, your new monthly hangout for the Swinger, ENM, and Kinky Community!

    Welcome to Crucible Rendezvous, where passion is celebrated and connections ignite in an inclusive and queer-friendly atmosphere. As a trailblazing event in the realm of Swinger and ENM (Ethical Non-Monogamy) kink parties, Crucible Rendezvous prides itself on creating a space that is not only inclusive but actively embraces the vibrant spectrum of human connections.

    Our gatherings are a fusion of sensuality, consent, and open-minded exploration. Whether you're a seasoned participant or a newcomer to the lifestyle, Crucible Rendezvous invites you to embark on a journey of connection, pleasure, and self-discovery. Our commitment to providing a safe, judgment-free space allows you to engage with like-minded individuals, forging connections that extend beyond the confines of societal norms.

    At Crucible Rendezvous, we believe in fostering an environment where all expressions of love, desire, and kink are welcomed, respected, and celebrated. Our events are designed with a queer-friendly ethos, recognizing and honoring the rich tapestry of identities within the LGBTQIA+ community. We strive to create a haven for individuals and couples exploring the realms of ethical non-monogamy, swinging, and kink, ensuring that everyone feels seen, heard, and free to express their authentic selves.

    Join us at Crucible Rendezvous, where the crucible of passion meets a conclave of diverse souls, and let the sparks of connection spark your most intimate desires. Embrace the extraordinary and revel in the freedom to explore the boundaries of your own unique journey in the company of fellow seekers of pleasure and connection.

    This is a 21+ Party
    Identification is required at the entrance.
    Must be a member of The Crucible or the guest of a member.

    $25 for members, $35 for guests
    (Limit 1 guest per member)

     

     

  • Black Rose Social
    October 25, 2024  9:00 pm - October 26, 2024  2:00 am

    On BR Social nights, The Crucible will admit BR members at the same rate as Crucible members ($25 members/$35 guests).

    Join us at 9pm for socialization and light refreshments. Open play starts whenever and lasts until the doors close.

     You must be a Crucible or Black Rose member or the guest of one to attend.

  • Crucible Halloween (21+)
    October 26, 2024  9:00 pm - October 27, 2024  2:00 am
  • Crucible Halloween Party (21+)
    October 26, 2024  9:00 pm - October 27, 2024  2:00 am

    Greetings to all macabre aficionados, and welcome to a night of exquisite debauchery, darkness, and desire at The Crucible Halloween Party - where pleasure knows no boundaries, and secrets linger in the shadows.  
     
    As the moon ascends, casting eerie shadows upon the streets, we invite you to step into the realm of your deepest, darkest fantasies. The Crucible, a BDSM sanctuary like none other, is a haven of enigmatic kink, sensuality, play, and debauchery. But fear not, this Halloween night, for costumes shall shield your identity, granting you the freedom to embrace your innermost desires without reservation.  
     
    Will you be a mysterious phantom, a seductive succubus, or a wickedly enchanting creature of the night? The choice is yours. Immerse yourself in the hauntingly seductive atmosphere of The Crucible, where the scent of leather and the crack of the whip mingle with whispers of temptation. Unearth your deepest desires and revel in the darkness as we dance with the shadows.  
     
    And what masquerade would be complete without enchanting libations and delectable treats to tempt your palate? Sip on blood-red cocktails and savor sinful delights that will awaken your senses and leave you craving for more
     
    Halloween at The Crucible beckons you to embrace your inner demons, explore the boundaries of pleasure, and indulge in a night of unadulterated passion. This Halloween, let the thrill of the unknown consume you. Attend this sinful soirée and prepare to lose yourself in a night that will linger in your dreams, long after the midnight hour has struck. Join us, if you dare, at The Crucible, where pleasure knows no bounds and the night belongs to the wicked. 
     
    This is a 21+ only event. You must be a Crucible member or the guest of a member to attendAll attendees must show ID and proof of covid-19 vaccination to enter. Review the Crucible FAQ for questions.

  • FFausten Fist-Tea
    October 27, 2024  4:00 pm - 9:00 pm
  • CLOSED
    October 28, 2024
  • Glamour & Gore: A QINKy Horror Drag Spectacular and Social (21+)
    October 30, 2024  7:30 pm - 11:00 pm

    Come celebrate Spooky Season and queer community at Glamour & Gore: A QINKy Horror Drag Spectacular and Social!

    This horror-themed drag show invites you to experience a night of spine-tingling performances, eerie elegance, and devilishly delightful entertainment. Step into the shadows of the fabulous and fearsome as performers dazzle you in wickedly creative costumes, terrifyingly good lip-syncs, and a hauntingly fabulous atmosphere, leaving you screaming for more.

    Doors open at 7:30 pm. Drag show will run from 8:00 pm - 9:30 pm. The dungeon is open until 11:00 pm for socializing. No Play Will Be Allowed.

    • Come dressed in your Halloween costumes!
    • Mix and mingle with your fellow kinky queers before and after the show!
    • Enjoy gender-bending renditions of many things horror and Halloween!
    • Get your libations at the cash bar!

    Please note that this is not QINK’s regular Friday night play party, but a night for socializing and enjoying the artistic macabre brilliance of the DMV queer community. Again, this is NOT a Play Party and play will not be permitted.

    This is a drag show. So, come prepared to tip performers!

    • You can tip with cash handed physically to the performer or our stage kittens/tom cats, or
    • You can tip virtually through the QR codes to each performer’s Venmo that will be posted in the Crucible lobby

     

  • Black Rose Gateway
    October 31, 2024  7:30 pm - 10:00 pm

    BR Gateway is a special Black Rose meeting intended for individuals (18 and older) who are either new to BDSM or new to the DC kink scene. BR Gateway is designed to facilitate getting your questions answered. Attendees at this event tend to be from diverse ages, backgrounds, genders, orientations, and more — everyone is welcome.  The meeting is an informal discussion and there is nothing you have to bring. Casual or business attire is more appropriate, scene wear is not appropriate.https://br.org/br/gateway/
    Gateway attendees receive a coupon for discounted admission to Dungeon 101 and a Black Rose Tuesday night class.
    ASL Interpreters are available upon request. Please give us two weeks notice. Email ASL@br.org for more information.
    $5 entry fee. Admission is at the door.

  • Dungeon 101
    November 1, 2024  7:30 pm - November 2, 2024  2:00 am

    Dungeon 101 serves as an introduction into public BDSM play. If you have never attended a public BDSM play event, it can be a bit daunting. The Dungeon 101 class is specifically designed to make you feel comfortable at your first public BDSM dungeon event. Attendees and presenters come from a diverse cross section of the community, all orientations, genders and kinks are welcome. You are welcome to come alone, bring a friend or bring a bunch of friends.

    From 7:30 until 8:00 PM will be social time. Starting at 8:00 PM, there will be a talk on scene etiquette and an opportunity to learn about the dungeon itself. Directly following will be a "Exploratorium" event until 11:00 PM where you can try and/or experience many different kinds of play scenes. The idea is for it to be a fun evening for everyone!

    No advance tickets are available for this event -  please plan to arrive early and pay at the door.

    $10 with Gateway card,
    $25 members with membership card,
    $35 all others

    More experienced folk come on out after 11:00 PM for Open Play. We ask that everyone except presenters keep their toy bags put away until Open Play starts to avoid confusion. No scenes or play permitted during the Exploratorium.

    This is an outreach event, you do not need to be a BR or Crucible member to attend.

    In order to foster a learning environment, there is no sex allowed at Dungeon 101, and no alcohol is sold. This applies all night, even during open play after the Exploratorium has concluded.

    You must be at least 18 years of age. Government-issued photo ID required for entry.

  • Sinfully Naughty (21+)
    November 2, 2024  9:00 pm - November 3, 2024  1:00 am

    Sinfully Naughty Playductions hosts monthly play parties at The Crucible. Each month, expect a great party with a fun theme, snacks, games & prizes, demo stations, and more!
    You must be a Crucible member or the guest of a member to attend. All attendees must show ID.

     
    Themes and other details updated as they become available.

  • Hitchin' Bitches
    November 3, 2024  1:00 pm - 4:00 pm

    Introduction to Self-Suspension

    Hitchin' Bitches DC is incredibly excited to announce that for the November Skill Share, we will be joined by Qatherine, all the way from Boston, for a special class! A passionate self-suspender, circus artist, and experienced instructor, Qatherine will be teaching Introduction to Self-Suspension to a lucky 12 folks who are ready to get some air time! If you currently meet or will meet the prerequisites in the description below, reach out ahead of time via DM to our fetlife account so that we save you a spot.

    In self-suspension, a single person takes the role of rigger and rope bottom, allowing for an autonomous experience in the air. While similar in some regards to partnered suspension, self-suspension presents unique challenges and opportunities. This introductory-level class is intended for people with some experience tying rope, but little to no experience self-suspending. We will learn hangers, upline techniques, and lockoffs, which are the building blocks for suspension. Students will then be guided through a basic face-up self-suspension with options for transitions in the air. Throughout this intensive, we will go over the risks involved in self-suspension and the measures we can take to mitigate these risks.

    Prerequisites: Students should have the ability to tie a non-collapsible single column (e.g. Somerville bowline), understanding of forward and reverse tension, knowledge of half-hitches. Students should have some experience tying suspension-worthy chest and lower body harnesses.

    What to bring: A standard suspension kit containing at least eight 25-30 ft long ropes, rigging hardware such as a steel ring and/or climbing-rated carabiners, a climbing sling, and a cutting tool. HB facilitators may have limited extras to share--just reach out.

    HB Logistics Note: While we will still make room for floor rope away from the hard points, this self-suspension class will cap at 12 people. Please send Hitchin Bitches DC a message on Fetlife (@HitchinBitchesDC) to reserve your spot in this special class--RSVPs to the Fetlife event will be treated as just coming to the regular share unless you message us and receive a reply confirming your spot! Worried about whether your favorite harness is suspension-worthy? We can go over a few at the September and October Shares!


    You must be a Crucible member or the guest of a member.
    $10 for Crucible members / $15 for non-members

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