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Black Rose Gateway
Black Rose Gateway
October 2, 2025 7:30 pm - 10:00 pm
The Crucible, 412 V Street NE, Washington, DC, 20002, United States
BR Gateway is a special Black Rose meeting intended for individuals (18 and older) who are either new to BDSM or new to the DC kink scene. BR Gateway is designed to facilitate getting your questions answered. Attendees at this event tend to be from diverse ages, backgrounds, genders, orientations, and more — everyone is welcome. The meeting is an informal discussion and there is nothing you have to bring. Casual or business attire is more appropriate, scene wear is not appropriate.https://br.org/br/gateway/
Gateway attendees receive a coupon for discounted admission to Dungeon 101 and a Black Rose Tuesday night class.
ASL Interpreters are available upon request. Please give us two weeks notice. Email ASL@br.org for more information.
$5 entry fee. Admission is at the door.
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Dungeon 101
Dungeon 101
October 3, 2025 7:30 pm - October 4, 2025 2:00 am
The Crucible, 412 V St NE, Washington, DC 20002, USA
Dungeon 101 serves as an introduction into public BDSM play. If you have never attended a public BDSM play event, it can be a bit daunting. The Dungeon 101 class is specifically designed to make you feel comfortable at your first public BDSM dungeon event. Attendees and presenters come from a diverse cross section of the community, all orientations, genders and kinks are welcome. You are welcome to come alone, bring a friend or bring a bunch of friends.
From 7:30 until 8:00 PM will be social time. Starting at 8:00 PM, there will be a talk on scene etiquette and an opportunity to learn about the dungeon itself. Directly following will be a "Exploratorium" event until 11:00 PM where you can try and/or experience many different kinds of play scenes. The idea is for it to be a fun evening for everyone!
No advance tickets are available for this event - please plan to arrive early and pay at the door.
$10 with Gateway card,
$25 members with membership card,
$35 all others
More experienced folk come on out after 11:00 PM for Open Play. We ask that everyone except presenters keep their toy bags put away until Open Play starts to avoid confusion. No scenes or play permitted during the Exploratorium.
This is an outreach event, you do not need to be a BR or Crucible member to attend.
In order to foster a learning environment, there is no sex allowed at Dungeon 101, and no alcohol is sold. This applies all night, even during open play after the Exploratorium has concluded.
You must be at least 18 years of age. Government-issued photo ID required for entry.
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Sinfully Naughty (21+) 🕸️🖤 The Addams: Dead Dance Play Party & Social 💀
Sinfully Naughty (21+) 🕸️🖤 The Addams: Dead Dance Play Party & Social 💀
October 4, 2025 9:00 pm - October 5, 2025 2:00 am
The Crucible, 412 V Street NE
“Gothic. Glamorous. Gagged.”
A kink night inspired by The Addams Family’s dark charm!and Lady Gaga’s theatrical edge.
🦴Enter the mansion of the damned for a night of:
• 🕯️ Kink Demo Stations
• 🕸️ Aerial Silks Performance from beyond the grave
• 👁️ “Guess How Many Eyeballs in the Jar?” Game
• 🍸 Open Cash Bar
• 💃 Dance floor with dark beats & Gaga-inspired remixes
• 🎭 Costume play encouraged — fuse fetish fashion with Addams Family macabre or Gaga-level glam!
You must be a Crucible member or the guest of a member to attend. All attendees must show ID.
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Hitchin' Bitches
Hitchin' Bitches
October 5, 2025 1:00 pm - 4:00 pm
412 V Street NE
Hitchin' Bitches is for women and non-binary folks interested in tying, being tied and who self-tie. Men may accompany attendees as bottoms, but may not tie or participate in any discussions other than as bottoms. Men are only allowed at the invitation of an attending top.
You must be a Crucible member or the guest of a member.
$10 for Crucible members / $15 for non-members
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Black Rose Tuesday Night Education
Black Rose Tuesday Night Education
October 7, 2025 7:30 pm - 10:00 pm
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Sapphic (21+)
Sapphic (21+)
October 9, 2025 8:00 pm - 11:59 pm
412 V Street NE, Washington, DC
“Sapphic” is for femmes attracted to other femmes whether they identify as lesbian, bisexual, queer, trans, or any diverse identity falling within the spectrum of same-sex femme attractions representing an identity, an aesthetic, and a celebration of diverse experiences and connections of femme presenting folx and feminine energy.
The Sapphic aesthetic affirms the unique experiences and relationships of female-identifying genders who love femmes and feminine energy.
You must be a Crucible member or the guest of a member to attend. All attendees must be at least 21 years old. $25 for members/$35 for guests.
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LOBO Presents: Animal Haus (21+)
LOBO Presents: Animal Haus (21+)
October 10, 2025 9:00 pm - October 11, 2025 2:00 am
A wild new play party has just been unleashed at The Crucible. From the creators of Lights Out, Barks Out comes Animal Haus, a monthly music and play event centered at the intersection of pet play and kink. DJs will be spinning all night long, while attendees can explore The Crucible’s 6,000 square feet of play space. Fursuiters, Pups, and petplayers from all around the DMV can expect a fun, consent based, unforgettable evening.
Animal Haus is a break from LOBO’s usual event (held on the second saturday at The Green Lantern). While you can still expect the same caliber of music and excitement, Animal Haus is centered on bringing together folks from all different communities to play, dance, and
connect in a way that is solely unique to The Crucible. In this members-only space, nudity and open play is allowed, and occasionally LOBO will feature demo stations so folks can get a taste of different flavors of Kink.
This event is 21+ and will have a bar. While there is no formal coat check, there is a coat/gear/tote/etc room to hold any of your gear or bags (first come first serve). The Crucible features a dance floor, seating area, lounge, 2 private rooms, a semi private space, and a huge dungeon space packed with furniture to help fulfill any fantasy.
Please note you must be a member or a guest of a member to attend. One member per guest allowed, guests may only be guested in twice before we ask that they purchase a membership. Memberships are $40 a year and can be purchased from the-crucible.com. Membership must be purchased in advance of attending any event at The Crucible.
All attendees must show government-issued photo ID.
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RISQUE (21+)
RISQUE (21+)
October 11, 2025 9:00 pm - October 12, 2025 2:00 am
RISQUÉ is a monthly BDSM play party with music provided by the area’s hottest EDM DJs.
RISQUÉ is primarily a BDSM play party, designed to create a fun, comfortable space for members already well versed in the scene, as well as providing a safe and respectful environment for newcomers that are not only watch, but join in and learn at their own pace and comfort level. If you’re currently into, or would like to learn more about Bondage, Discipline, Domination, Submission, Sadism and/or Masochism, we have experienced players in the fields of Flogging, Rope, Fire Fleshing and/or Cupping, Needles, Knives, and much more every single month for your enjoyment.
As much as RISQUÉ is a play party, it is also a club night, so we feature a diverse variety of Electronic Dance Music, no matter if you’re into industrial, synthpop, EDM, house, electro, D&B, dubstep, or just about anything else, our DJs will be sure to get you moving. And of course, if there is someone you would like to spin, we’re always taking staffing requests.
RISQUÉ is a dress to impress party, however rest assured that nudity is always welcomed and accepted. Additionally, each month RISQUÉ will follow a new theme that you can dress up for and find new ways to enjoy yourself. Please see our event pages for details and suggestions.
You must be a Crucible member or the guest of a member to attend.
Admission is $25 for members and $35 for guests. All attendees must be at least 21 years old.
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Pony Meet Up
Pony Meet Up
October 12, 2025 2:00 pm - 6:00 pm
Pups, kittens, and all other animals are welcome as well to share the space, just be mindful of where you're romping around hooves 🙂
You must be a Crucible member or the guest of a member to attend. $10 for members/$15 for guests.
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Black Rose Tuesday Night Education
Black Rose Tuesday Night Education
October 14, 2025 7:30 pm - 10:00 pm
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QINK
QINK
October 17, 2025 9:00 pm - October 18, 2025 2:00 am
Looking for a space to be your most authentic, unapologetic self? Welcome to QINK - Queer Identifying n Kinky.
This is an all-inclusive space for all genders and queer sexualities for folks to meet new people, socialize, and play. Bring your best self and leave judgments at the door.
This is an 18+ party. Alcohol will not be served.
Identification required at entrance.
Must be a member of The Crucible or the guest of a member.
This event is for queers of all kinds and kinks, no matter your experience level. We want to smash gatekeeping and create a welcoming space for folks to explore themselves.
$25/members, $35/guests
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Bruise (21+)
Bruise (21+)
October 18, 2025 9:00 pm - October 19, 2025 2:00 am
The Crucible, 412 V St NE, Washington, DC 20002, USA
This party is rougher around the edges, with a focus on S/M, pain, and edgeplay. Demo stations will include knives, needles, or heavy impact, and exhibition scenes may be disturbing or frightening to some. The signature Bruise drink is a cranberry, citrus and passionfruit mocktail or cocktail with edible shimmer!
21+
$25/members, $35/guests
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Crucible Rope Share
Crucible Rope Share
October 19, 2025 4:00 pm - 7:00 pm
412 V St NE, Washington, DC 20002, USA
Bondage enthusiasts, new tiers, old riggers, self tiers, escape artists, … If you like rope, The Crucible has an event just for you, Crucible Rope Share.
If you are, or want to be a part of, the rope family, you are invited to join in an afternoon of rope education, experimentation, and play. A Rope Share offers a bunch of ways to make a great rope day. If you are new to rope or looking for a new tie, instructors will be on hand to provide hands on instruction and guidance to help you improve your skills. If you have a tie that needs workshopping / experimenting, the instructors and other community members may have the insight to share that helps you find your “ah-ha” moment. If you just need a place to tie, the club is available for your use and enjoyment.
This event is for rope enthusiasts of all skill levels, sexual orientations, gender identities, ages, and race/ethnicity who want to learn about the art of bondage and share their passion for rope with others. Attendees must be Crucible Members or the guest of a member and be 18 years old or older.
$10/members, $15/guests
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Black Rose Tuesday Night Education
Black Rose Tuesday Night Education
October 21, 2025 7:30 pm - 10:00 pm
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Crucible Rendevous (21+)
Crucible Rendevous (21+)
October 23, 2025 8:00 pm - 11:59 pm
You are cordially invtied to Crucible Rendezvous, your new monthly hangout for the Swinger, ENM, and Kinky Community!
Welcome to Crucible Rendezvous, where passion is celebrated and connections ignite in an inclusive and queer-friendly atmosphere. As a trailblazing event in the realm of Swinger and ENM (Ethical Non-Monogamy) kink parties, Crucible Rendezvous prides itself on creating a space that is not only inclusive but actively embraces the vibrant spectrum of human connections.
Our gatherings are a fusion of sensuality, consent, and open-minded exploration. Whether you're a seasoned participant or a newcomer to the lifestyle, Crucible Rendezvous invites you to embark on a journey of connection, pleasure, and self-discovery. Our commitment to providing a safe, judgment-free space allows you to engage with like-minded individuals, forging connections that extend beyond the confines of societal norms.
At Crucible Rendezvous, we believe in fostering an environment where all expressions of love, desire, and kink are welcomed, respected, and celebrated. Our events are designed with a queer-friendly ethos, recognizing and honoring the rich tapestry of identities within the LGBTQIA+ community. We strive to create a haven for individuals and couples exploring the realms of ethical non-monogamy, swinging, and kink, ensuring that everyone feels seen, heard, and free to express their authentic selves.
Join us at Crucible Rendezvous, where the crucible of passion meets a conclave of diverse souls, and let the sparks of connection spark your most intimate desires. Embrace the extraordinary and revel in the freedom to explore the boundaries of your own unique journey in the company of fellow seekers of pleasure and connection.
This is a 21+ Party
Identification is required at the entrance.
Must be a member of The Crucible or the guest of a member.
$25 for members, $35 for guests
(Limit 1 guest per member)
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Black Rose Social
Black Rose Social
October 24, 2025 9:00 pm - October 25, 2025 2:00 am
On BR Social nights, The Crucible will admit BR members at the same rate as Crucible members ($25 members/$35 guests).
Join us at 9pm for socialization and light refreshments. Open play starts whenever and lasts until the doors close.
You must be a Crucible or Black Rose member or the guest of one to attend.
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Summoned (21+)
Summoned (21+)
October 25, 2025 9:00 pm - October 26, 2025 2:00 am
The Crucible, 412 V St NE, Washington, DC 20002, USA
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FFausten FistTea
FFausten FistTea
October 26, 2025 5:00 pm - 9:00 pm
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Black Rose Tuesday Night Education
Black Rose Tuesday Night Education
October 28, 2025 7:30 pm - 10:00 pm
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CAPDL Kinkgarten
CAPDL Kinkgarten
October 30, 2025 8:00 pm - 11:30 pm
✏️📚CAPDL’s Kinkgarten: Play Party & Social 🚌
A kink night inspired by and for Littles, Middles, Caregivers, Ageplayers of all kinds, and Diaper Lovers
🎭 Costume play encouraged — wear your favorite Halloween costume, fetish wear, and/or littles, middles or caregiver clothes!
Please note: We aren’t a general kink event, we are specific to ageplay and ABDL: ageplayers (DDLG, MDLB, etc.) and diaper lovers.
You must be a Member or Guest of a Member to attend this party.
Each member is allowed to bring one (1) guest.
All attendees must show ID.
$25 for members, $35 for guests of members
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Crucible Halloween Party (21+)
Crucible Halloween Party (21+)
October 31, 2025 9:00 pm - November 1, 2025 2:00 am
The Crucible, 412 V St NE, Washington, DC 20002, USA
It's that time of the year again! Step into the shadows for a night of wicked delight at the infamous Crucible Halloween Party. The air will thrum with dark beats from DJ Jake Maxwell, summoning spirits to dance until the witching hour. Costumes are encouraged (though not required). Our bar will be open, and this event is 21+. This event is not for the faint of heart, as the dungeon will come alive with ghosts, goblins, and grotesque creatures of the night. Enter...if you dare!
You must be a Crucible member or the guest of a member to attend. All attendees must be at least 21 years old. ID required to enter. $25 for members, $35 for guests
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