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Sapphic (21+)November 13, 2025 8:00 pm - 11:59 pm
“Sapphic” is for femmes attracted to other femmes whether they identify as lesbian, bisexual, queer, trans, or any diverse identity falling within the spectrum of same-sex femme attractions representing an identity, an aesthetic, and a celebration of diverse experiences and connections of femme presenting folx and feminine energy.
The Sapphic aesthetic affirms the unique experiences and relationships of female-identifying genders who love femmes and feminine energy.
You must be a Crucible member or the guest of a member to attend. All attendees must be at least 21 years old. $25 for members/$35 for guests.
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Black and Kinky Fridays (21+)November 14, 2025 9:00 pm - November 15, 2025 2:00 am
Black and Kinky Fridays at The Crucible is a space for all experience levels and interest in kink. We focus on building community, education and play in the largest kink event in DC that centers, celebrates and honors the rich diversity and contributions of Black and Brown kinksters. Our gathering aims to create a safe and welcoming space for all participants, with a strong focus on ensuring the safety, honored consent, and positive experiences of Black and Brown attendees.
Whether it is your first time in a dungeon or you are a seasoned vet, we invite you to mix and mingle with our thriving community. Our monthly event is built for discovery, driven by consent, and centers around the Black kinkster experience. We provide the music and vibes, all we need is you!
You must be a Crucible member or the guest of a member to attend. This event is 21+.
$25 for members, $35 for guests
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Crucible Work DayNovember 15, 2025 2:00 pm - 6:00 pm
Have you ever wondered what goes on behind the scenes to make The Crucible the fun and sexy place you come to play? Are you interested in giving back to your kink community but can't commit to regular volunteer shifts? Here's your chance!
If you are interested in helping us clean, organize, and revitalize the club we are looking for volunteers to help out during the club work day from 2 to 6 pm. No special skills are needed and all hands are welcome to help. Please wear close-toed shoes for safety.
Email info with any questions.
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Blush (21+)November 15, 2025 9:00 pm - November 16, 2025 2:00 am
A party more focused on sex, flirting, connection, and titillation. Demo stations will tend to be more sensation-based, such as wax, with exhibition scenes that are playful and hot. The signature Blush drink is a sparkling raspberry lemonade, available with or without alcohol.
21+
$25/members, $35/guests - you must be a member or the guest of a member
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Making Waves - Impact Skill ShareNovember 16, 2025 1:00 pm - 3:00 pm
Making Waves is a skill share focused on improving the DC area's impact skills.
As always, neither the club nor Making Waves supplies Tops, bottoms or toys for any class. Please negotiate your situation to make the most of the class. Hanging targets are available but limited.
You must be a Crucible member or the guest of a member to attend. $10 for members, $15 for guests.
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Crucible Rope ShareNovember 16, 2025 4:00 pm - 7:00 pm
Bondage enthusiasts, new tiers, old riggers, self tiers, escape artists, … If you like rope, The Crucible has an event just for you, Crucible Rope Share.
If you are, or want to be a part of, the rope family, you are invited to join in an afternoon of rope education, experimentation, and play. A Rope Share offers a bunch of ways to make a great rope day. If you are new to rope or looking for a new tie, instructors will be on hand to provide hands on instruction and guidance to help you improve your skills. If you have a tie that needs workshopping / experimenting, the instructors and other community members may have the insight to share that helps you find your “ah-ha” moment. If you just need a place to tie, the club is available for your use and enjoyment.
This event is for rope enthusiasts of all skill levels, sexual orientations, gender identities, ages, and race/ethnicity who want to learn about the art of bondage and share their passion for rope with others. Attendees must be Crucible Members or the guest of a member and be 18 years old or older.
$10/members, $15/guests
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CLOSEDNovember 17, 2025
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Black Rose Tuesday Night EducationNovember 18, 2025 7:30 pm - 10:00 pm
Visit the BR website for class topics and more details: https://br.org/calendar/category/education/
Email info@br.org for more information about Black Rose or its events.
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CLOSEDNovember 19, 2025
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Crucible Rendevous (21+)November 20, 2025 8:00 pm - 11:59 pm
You are cordially invtied to Crucible Rendezvous, your new monthly hangout for the Swinger, ENM, and Kinky Community!
Welcome to Crucible Rendezvous, where passion is celebrated and connections ignite in an inclusive and queer-friendly atmosphere. As a trailblazing event in the realm of Swinger and ENM (Ethical Non-Monogamy) kink parties, Crucible Rendezvous prides itself on creating a space that is not only inclusive but actively embraces the vibrant spectrum of human connections.
Our gatherings are a fusion of sensuality, consent, and open-minded exploration. Whether you're a seasoned participant or a newcomer to the lifestyle, Crucible Rendezvous invites you to embark on a journey of connection, pleasure, and self-discovery. Our commitment to providing a safe, judgment-free space allows you to engage with like-minded individuals, forging connections that extend beyond the confines of societal norms.
At Crucible Rendezvous, we believe in fostering an environment where all expressions of love, desire, and kink are welcomed, respected, and celebrated. Our events are designed with a queer-friendly ethos, recognizing and honoring the rich tapestry of identities within the LGBTQIA+ community. We strive to create a haven for individuals and couples exploring the realms of ethical non-monogamy, swinging, and kink, ensuring that everyone feels seen, heard, and free to express their authentic selves.
Join us at Crucible Rendezvous, where the crucible of passion meets a conclave of diverse souls, and let the sparks of connection spark your most intimate desires. Embrace the extraordinary and revel in the freedom to explore the boundaries of your own unique journey in the company of fellow seekers of pleasure and connection.
This is a 21+ Party
Identification is required at the entrance.
Must be a member of The Crucible or the guest of a member.$25 for members, $35 for guests
(Limit 1 guest per member)
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QINKNovember 21, 2025 9:00 pm - November 22, 2025 2:00 am
Looking for a space to be your most authentic, unapologetic self? Welcome to QINK - Queer Identifying n Kinky.
This is an all-inclusive space for all genders and queer sexualities for folks to meet new people, socialize, and play. Bring your best self and leave judgments at the door.This is an 18+ party. Alcohol will not be served.
Identification required at entrance.
Must be a member of The Crucible or the guest of a member.This event is for queers of all kinds and kinks, no matter your experience level. We want to smash gatekeeping and create a welcoming space for folks to explore themselves.
$25/members, $35/guests
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LOBO Presents: Animal Haus (21+)November 22, 2025 9:00 pm - November 23, 2025 2:00 am
A wild new play party has just been unleashed at The Crucible. From the creators of Lights Out, Barks Out comes Animal Haus, a monthly music and play event centered at the intersection of pet play and kink. DJs will be spinning all night long, while attendees can explore The Crucible’s 6,000 square feet of play space. Fursuiters, Pups, and petplayers from all around the DMV can expect a fun, consent based, unforgettable evening.
Animal Haus is a break from LOBO’s usual event (held on the second saturday at The Green Lantern). While you can still expect the same caliber of music and excitement, Animal Haus is centered on bringing together folks from all different communities to play, dance, and
connect in a way that is solely unique to The Crucible. In this members-only space, nudity and open play is allowed, and occasionally LOBO will feature demo stations so folks can get a taste of different flavors of Kink.This event is 21+ and will have a bar. While there is no formal coat check, there is a coat/gear/tote/etc room to hold any of your gear or bags (first come first serve). The Crucible features a dance floor, seating area, lounge, 2 private rooms, a semi private space, and a huge dungeon space packed with furniture to help fulfill any fantasy.
Please note you must be a member or a guest of a member to attend. One member per guest allowed, guests may only be guested in twice before we ask that they purchase a membership. Memberships are $40 a year and can be purchased from the-crucible.com. Membership must be purchased in advance of attending any event at The Crucible.
All attendees must show government-issued photo ID.
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Crucible Gamers & CrafternoonNovember 23, 2025 2:00 pm - 8:00 pm
Come join the Crucible Gamers to play board, card, and video games, or take advantage of all the other options the club has to offer. It's a chill Sunday afternoon, so plenty of time for whatever, and not too crowded, so plenty of room to spread out too.
Games. Come play them. Bring some if you wish. Also bring someone if you wish. Play games.
In tandem with the Gamers, we're inviting crafty kinksters to join us for Kinky Crafternoon at the Crucible. All your hand crafts are welcome - beading, crochet, cross-stitch, embroidery, jewelry-making, knitting, spinning, weaving, etc. Bring your tools/supplies (and any you're willing to share/trade). All skill levels are welcome and skill sharing is strongly encouraged.
We ask that you leave anything especially noisy (power tools), smelly (model glue/paint), or messy (whittling, glitter) at home.$5 Crucible members
$10 each guest (1 per member)Crucible Membership required
18+ ID will be checked at the door
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CLOSEDNovember 24, 2025
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Black Rose Tuesday Night EducationNovember 25, 2025 7:30 pm - 10:00 pm
Visit the BR website for class topics and more details: https://br.org/calendar/category/education/
Email info@br.org for more information about Black Rose or its events.
